Romans 12:2 reminds us, “Do not conform yourselves to this age but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and pleasing and perfect.” This verse encapsulates the transformative journey I made through the Asian Franciscan Formators Training (AFFT). The nine-month course was a fascinating synthesis of psychology, theology, philosophy, and spirituality, and provided me with an illuminating path toward deeper understanding and greater self-awareness.
Throughout the course, it became evident that although we may seem resilient, internally we can be consumed by past wounds. This pain shapes how we move through life and may disconnect us from who we truly are. The AFFT shed light on this, offering a comprehensive approach to understanding human nature, divine calling, and the interconnectedness of all aspects of our being.
The programme’s multidisciplinary approach brought lecturers from Singapore, Italy, Indonesia, Ireland, Germany, India, Australia, and the Philippines. They helped us craft a programme centred on God’s designs and purposes, one that encourages us to live integrated lives.
Two modules from the 16 that I particularly enjoyed were “The Mystery of the Human Person” and “Personal Discernment and Affective Maturity.” They offered insights into the interior journey and the importance of accompanying ourselves lovingly and patiently. In learning how to support others, I realised the significance of learning to accompany ourselves in the same way. It is slow and deliberate work to allow the fragmented parts of us to heal and integrate, permitting Christ to bring the broken pieces back together.
St Paul said transformed minds produce transformed lives, and indeed the most profound takeaway from the AFFT for me is that our minds must be recalibrated for true transformation to occur. This recalibration means deepening our emotional and spiritual awareness, becoming more attuned to the needs of our own hearts and the hearts of those we accompany. When done right, this inner transformation can extend to entire family systems.
Friar Cosmas Francis, who also participated in the course, summed it up well when he said, “The challenge now is to take what we have learned, study it further, and expand our working knowledge – so that we can experience the freedom and courage of love – not just for ourselves but also for those that we accompany in this journey called life.”
As a formator, the course has reshaped how I view my role. Through the renewal of my mind and heart, I feel better able to discern the will of God and assist others in doing the same. I recognise now that true accompaniment comes from a place of deep self-awareness and a genuine desire to see the other person flourish.
The journey of formation is not just about teaching others; it is about walking with them in their struggles, helping them see the path forward, and encouraging them to trust in the transformative power of God’s love. The AFFT has equipped me to do this more effectively, and for that, I am truly grateful.
Friar Aiden Peter OFM
Friar Aiden was one of eight friars who participated in the inaugural Asian Franciscan Formators Training held from April to December 2024.
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